(And how to say it. ) No to free pitching. So the ad industry finally seems to be finding a singular voice on calling out unhealthy business practice. The message is clear. Learn how to say, ‘No’, or raise your hand to being a (worn out) door mat. For too long we’ve given, ‘Yes I can’ gold star status. So let’s hear it for, ‘No, not for me’. And relish every word. But why is it so damn difficult to say? What scares us the most about ‘nope’ is that we perceive it to somehow diminish us, make us less ‘good’. Less likeable. Truth is it’s where respect starts. So much of this people-pleasing stuff goes back to when were children. It came gilded as manners - being good and polite. But boy was it loaded. And we knew it. So now when every fibre of our being is screaming, ‘No!’ there’s a mute child within, worried about doing the wrong thing. Bringing this back to creative basecamp. I’m sure you can think of a million and one examples of when ‘no’ is the perfectly right thing to say. Can you stay and work up a few more examples? Can you work the weekend? Can you give me some ideas (that I will then not credit you for)? Can you knock me up a quick logo /speed read my script (again)? Cut to that feeling when you show up or hand over. You’ve been ‘had’ AGAIN. You missed out on doing something you really wanted to do. You denied yourself. You kno…